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It’s hard for people to have confidence these days. I’ve struggled with it myself and sometimes continue to, but I’ve noticed something interesting: focusing on a void doesn’t help you fill that void. If I concentrate on not having confidence, then that’s all I experience – lost of anxiety and lower self-esteem.
Losing my teeth does mess with me, both mentally and emotionally; but there’s nothing I can do about it so I learn to accept myself as I am. I haven’t changed just because I look different now. In fact, my health has drastically improved since my operations. To be out of pain and free from dangerous infection is a wonderful thing, and now I can look forward to braces (which I never thought I’d be able to wear) and dentures! Blessings really can come in disguise.
Recently (just a few days before writing this post), I had two more teeth extracted and two bone graphs put in. I’ve never liked having dental work done because it’s always painful, but when you have a problem like this that runs in the family, it’s unavoidable. This time was especially hard because I was alone. Usually, there’s someone with me.
Originally, I wasn’t going to do any bone graphs. However, the periodontist highly advised I get them because that would ensure I’d be able to get braces later on. I don’t mind saying I was extremely apprehensive about having yet another procedure. And because I was alone, I didn’t have anyone to consult with about the financial cost. So the decision rested completely with me. To my surprise, my periodontist offered to work with me on the cost because she believed so strongly that I needed to have it done sooner rather than later. Now I’m trying to rest and heal.
So that was several lessons in one. Firstly, that Source will make sure I get what I need as long as I have faith. Secondly, I needed to make the choice completely independently and take responsibility for it. Thirdly, I mustn’t sell myself short by denying myself the help that’s required (even if it’s painful). And fourthly, sometimes things really do turn out better than you’d hoped for.
My favorite holiday is coming up!